Family Pix

My grandpa will be 90 next month. Wow… I can’t begin to think about all he has seen and lived through. To celebrate, my cousin and aunt are putting together a bunch of photos from his lifetime. Which means I am going through mine… I thought you might enjoy a couple.

Dad’s need to be fun… T does this well… here he is messing with J:

Little S, the boys were thrilled to have a little sister… even at 20 months and two weeks shy of 5, my boys were very protective!

K is great-grandchild number 24! (Number 23 was born 2 hours before she was!)

It’s good to look back at a blessed life. I am so thankful for all I have been graced with. Truly, it is beyond words. I don’t know what being 90 will be like, but I am grateful for a Grandpa who does!

TV kills and Tivo rocks

OK, so I admit I am trying to loose those “few extra baby pounds” … still… eight years after my first baby. I have noticed something since we got our lovely Tivo… besides the fact that it is the best way to watch and keep up with any show you might be watching…

I have noticed I watch a lot less commercials. I have noticed I get very irritated when my kids watch commercials. I have noticed I eat a lot less when I don’t watch commercials. When I don’t see all the crap junk they are pushing, I don’t want to eat everything in the house.

And, somehow, I find I am watching less TV… I think it’s because I watch the shows I WANT to watch, and I don’t get pulled into the next 5 shows they are airing. What a concept… maybe I should try turning it off 😉

Wake up calls and Great Neighbors

So T and I read last night much too late. It was after 1 before lights were out.. and at 5:30 K SCREAMED this morning. I stumbled into her room to find she had stuck her leg between the bars on her crib and she was NOT happy about it. It took a while for her to settle down and by that time, there was no going back to bed.

I tried napping on the couch, but it wasn’t long before other children were up for the day… and then I had to make sure T was up for work.

Once I had K settled in with a toy I got started on getting everyone ready for the programs of the day. Clothes to wash (remember, we just got home, and we are headed to FL in 10 days), juice to get ready, breakfast to serve… general daily life.

Then there’s another scream from K… maybe more of a holler. I guess she thought she needed some tummy time, and that toy was in her way… up comes the first bloody lip… more of a blood blister, as it never actually bleeds, but it swells.

It does get better… I had a great laugh with S today. One of the things I have taught my kids to do while making long trips is to stretch while making potty breaks. We reach up and “tickle the clouds” and then reach down and “tickle our toes.” This gets blood moving and usually ends in laughter… or at least big smiles. So, today I was sitting in the van and started stretching… and noticed S was doing the same thing I was. I smiled… reached up and said, “S, tickle the clouds!”

I got no smile in return, but rather a very serious face… “Momma… that’s NOT clouds… that’s the van!”

By the time we got home the boys were ready to play hard… which means lots of rough-housing… and fights and even tears. When T got home, we were all ready for bed… but it was dinner time first.

When we got everyone into bed, T wanted some new tool for some new car part that is on its way. He headed out the door and I headed to the computer. I got a call from him about ten minutes later… please google a car he might want to buy. As we are looking at this thing, he says “Oh… I’ve got a problem… I’ve got to call you back.” I’m thinking the cops have flashing lights behind him.

I go on with getting S back into bed. He calls again… he’s sitting on the side of the road interstate with a flat tire. I called my neighbors, who are in their 80’s, to see if they would come hang at our house since the kids are in bed. They come right over and I head out to rescue my husband. (I’m pretty sure it should be the other way around.)

Turns out, the valve stem on his 2 week old tires just came off. He thinks it got too hot… That’s not good in TN… we aren’t even in August yet.

So, NOW I am going to bed late again… and praying tomorrow is not as exciting. OR long.

Home, sweet Home

All six of us are back under one roof… yeah! This makes me very happy 😉 I had to drive four hours (my loving parents drove five) to get them and four more to get home today. When we pulled in, my DH had streamers decorating the living room and a pizza picnic on the living room floor to welcome our kids home. Big fun!

The kids had a great time at grandma’s, but Mommy was very ready to have them home (six days is a long time!). It was really fun to watch K’s reaction to seeing the others for the first time today… so sweet. G had lots of kisses for her (when doesn’t he???), J had lots of hugs and sweet S… she wanted to make sure her sister had a good trip home, too. As we were getting ready to leave the parking lot where we met Grandma and Papa, I reached back and tried to turn the dvd player S was watching more towards her… thinking it looked like it was about to fall off of her lap… she said “No, Momma, K needs to watch too.” Yes, she wanted to share her dvd with her little sister… so sweet!

Here’s some pix of our vacation…

Before we left S got herself dressed… and that’s shorts, with both legs through one leg hole

T got his new rims (plus several other new parts)

The boys, J, G and SM. S and SM.

K learns to swing…

At Grandma & Papa’s lake

Welcome Home!

Moments with S

I have been working on this for several days… being in my hometown for the first time in eight years, and with people I hadn’t seen in 20, getting my blog written did not come easy. I will work on updating a bit better.

However, I did want to share some of my life with S. My sweet sassy S… she’s only 3, and yet she is so… I’m not sure there’s words…

The other day we were in Grandma’s van when out of the blue she says, “What was that noise?” Dramatic pause… “Oh, I pooted.” Yes, there’s a little girl with big brothers!

Then there is the way she says things… like when we made pancakes for breakfast the other day. When her daddy walked into the kitchen to find her helping me stir, she looked at him with those blue eyes, grinning from ear to ear, “Daddy, we’re makin’ panny-cakes!”

Or, how about this lovely moment in Walmart… K was maybe three months old, I was pushing one of those BIG carts where S and G were strapped into seats, and K was in the car seat on the basket seat. As we are walking the aisles, S started this little sing-song over and over again, “Daddy is a …. man,’ What???

“Daddy is a …. man.” My 3 year old did not just say that!

I kept walking – I’m sure somewhere someone had just turned the heat WAY up!

Then G decides I need his help to interpret what she’s said… in a much louder voice, just in case someone on the OTHER side of WALMART missed it… “She’s saying, ‘DADDY IS A BOOB MAN’!” Uh… yeah… thanks kids.

Legacy… something

Legacy is a word that gets tossed about too much these days. People are concerned with what kind of legacy they will leave behind when they stop whatever they are doing… I am of the thought, if you pay attention to what you ARE doing, your legacy will speak for itself.

I thought I would see what the dictionary says an actual legacy is… and here’s what it said… “Legacy, n. something.” Uh… right… I think I knew that. No, I am not kidding… something is all it says. This is a Webster’s Dictionary published in 1980… Dictionary.com says this: anything handed down from the past, as from an ancestor or predecessor.

I know where I want my legacy to speak loudest… they are resting in the bedrooms right now. I want my legacy to be J, G, S and K to love and worship the Lord my God as their own. I want them to work to make this world a better place, to do good to/for their fellow man. I want them to seek God’s will, purpose and destiny in their lives.

The only way that will happen is for me to do my best as their mom. If I worry about my legacy… then I am not doing the job set in front of me… sort of like the guy who put together the dictionary that doesn’t really define a legacy.

Family Funnies

Being with family has its funny moments, here’s a couple from yesterday:

My Dad was in the kitchen, looking in the fridge. “What did your Mom do with the turkey?”

Me: “She married him…”

Later at a neighborhood party, my nephew SM, 5, saw me, carrying K, get up and start to the trash. “Where are you going?” he asked me.

“To the trash.”

His eyes got wide… “But that’s K!”

“I’m throwing out this spoon.”

“OK.”

I hope you have a great weekend with your family!

Sudden Storms

We are at my parents for this beautiful 4th of July in MO. Yesterday we spent some time outside at the baby pool with K and S, while the boys were running around with water guns getting Papa wet… and anyone else who got in there way. It was sunny and warm… a good afternoon.

When K got tired of the water, we got everyone back into the house, dried off and some down for naps. As we worked on all of this, the sky got darker… and suddenly it opened up and poured on us… well, the house we were all safely dry in.

The wind whipped all around us… even knocked the porch swing over. The rain was heavy and there was hail involved, too. My dad, sitting at the computer and watching out the window said rhetorically, “Wow, look at that… hail and everything… Where did that hail come from?”

J, sitting behind Papa playing, said, “From hell?”

 photo by Grandma 😉

Road Trip

Remember in college when a road trip was a good thing? Out with your friends on the open road, ready for new adventures and a chance to get away from the “stress” of life… as if! Try it with four kids and a trying-not-to-get-sick-but-not-succeeding husband.

Actually, four kids and said husband on an 8-turned-into-12-hour trip, they did really well. (Note to parents… Nintendo DS is a very good thing… dvd players also very handy.) They boys spent most of the trip trying to beat each other in some kind of race, shouting “REMATCH” about every 3 minutes. S watched “Boz the Bear” Christmas show… yes, I DO know it’s July, but she’s 3 and that’s what she wanted. K, sweet baby, slept most of the trip. Which meant when we pulled in at 3:30, she was ready to play for a couple of hours.

Me? Drivers seat for mostly… remember, T & the getting sick thing? Summer colds are not fun… and they make grown men grumpy on road trips! (Being pulled over about 30 minutes after you take over the driving, for 47 in a 35 doesn’t help… but not getting a ticket does!)

I got to see lots of fun stuff… a deer, two raccoons, an armadillo, a skunk – none of which were road kill – plus a fire… which at 9:30 or 10pm is a rather eeriesite. Now we are hanging with family… and grandparents are loving having the grandkids run around and make tons of noise.

And I’m ready for a nap.